Ever heard of this philosophy?
The more attached you are to something, the more likely you will lose it.
The more dettached you are from something, the more likely you will get it.
I thought about this the whole day, and realised.
When you are attached to something, you try hard. Sometimes, a bit too hard.
When you are dettached, you try, but not very hard, you know you can live without it. Somehow, at the end of the day you may just get the job/person/whatever it is you want.
So, in life,
TRY HARD.
but never,
try TOO hard.
There should always be a balance in everything isn't it?